Viola Mverechena's Story

From Reluctant to Rooted: How I Learned the True Meaning of Love

I was part of the very first group to pioneer ROOTS, but I didn't join willingly—my mom forced me. I resisted because I thought it was a program for "older women" and mothers. I didn't get it, and as Pastor Bonnie says, "You don't love what you don't understand." So, I dropped out.

The truth was, my understanding of love was shallow. Before ROOTS, I thought I knew what love was, but I didn't. I realize now that I didn't care that much about others; it was a major lacking area in my life.

I decided to give it another try, attending the grounding sessions and cell meetings. It was there, through the lessons on loving "the more excellent way," that my perspective was completely reshaped. I was confronted with a higher standard of love—one that was selfless, compassionate, and active. ROOTS held up a mirror to my heart, and for the first time, I saw the gap between what I felt and what true, Christ-like love really is.

That revelation changed everything. Now, I can see the clear change in my life. I am more compassionate, more loving, and more nurturing. As the last-born, I never knew how to take care of others, but now I find myself naturally caring for other children.

This transformation has even reshaped how I handle pressure. When I face challenging situations at university, things that would have previously overwhelmed me now don't faze me. I am rooted in a love that gives me stability and peace, and for that, I am forever grateful I didn't stay gone.